My loyal followers that are still here, I appreciate you so much. I took a few months away for a couple of reasons, one of them being that I felt like I was getting so caught up in trying to learn the right thing to do with regards to relationships that I just had to step away and do whatever I thought was best in order to be happy with the right person. Also some advice from Steve Harvey regarding blogging and dating helped kind of clear my mind about issues that come up with dating, and just keeping certain things to yourself.
Well, a couple of months after I stopped posting I met someone, and we’ve been together for a few months now. I think God must have been reading my blog because she’s answered a lot of the prayers I was asking for in a woman. She’s beautiful, intelligent, successful, funny, and makes everyday a pleasure. My family thinks she’s wonderful, and she accepts me the way I am. In the past, with a lot of relationships I’ve talked about here, the women I dated were below my level in different ways, and I always felt like I had to “pull” them up in some way, whether it be emotionally, financially, or socially. With her, she’s at or above my level in all those areas, so I just feel lucky and blessed to have a woman of her caliber by my side.
I have every confidence that this woman is my present, my future, and my everything. And the biggest reason for that is because we can just be ourselves with each other and there’s never any judgement or any feelings that you have to act a different way, or mince any words, or anything along those lines. Everything just feels natural and easy, and I’ve never had those feelings in these past relationships, as you guys know if you’ve read over the past two years. Lol. The biggest thing I can say is, once you meet someone special, truly special, you know it. You don’t have to come somewhere and ask for advice, or post scenarios, or things like that. You can just go to that person directly and work it out. And that’s what I’ve found and I hope to have for a very long time.
Now with all that being said, you may notice almost all of our previous posts missing. I made an executive decision to privatize all of those posts except for our very first one. The reason behind that is if we do decide to continue with this next year, we’re going to kind of take things in a different direction.
I’m really that confident in my girl, and I feel like things are going to work out with us for the long term. So we’ll discuss different topics, but a lot of my personal posts and opinions won’t be here. A lot of the posts I did were entertaining, and when I look back on them I laugh and shake my head. But in the past couple of months I’ve changed a lot, and what’s important to me regarding this blog is changing as well. I used to want to entertain, go for shock value, gain views and comments, and try to make this blog as big as possible. But now, this is a place where we’ll discuss various topics like before, but this will be more of a commentary than a personal reflection type of blog.
All that being said, I still have been keeping up with some of the most dedicated followers. Reema and his relationship advice, Kenny and his pickup ways, lol, Bambi and her newly found love, and Serenity and her recent “desires” for the workplace dude. Lol, and thanks to Serenity for asking about us the other day, and that was one of the things that prompted this update.
I’ll get back to commenting on you guys stuff and catching up over the next few days, and we’ll throw a few blog postings out here and there. But the old posts are gone and saved for my own viewing pleasure and a reminder of another wild and frustrating time in my life that my special lady ended.