The Makers Of Black Men Uncensored
MP11312 – MP is a 31 year old single black man hailing from Charlotte, NC. A co-founder of the blog, he writes a lot from the heart and delves into different topics usually centered around dating. However from time to time he will explore the world of sports, real life, and current events. The Charlotte Bobcats are one of his loves as they helped create this place, as well as Madden NFL 13 on Playstation, Family Guy, and Chicken Wings. You can definitely tell this man is TRULY single at the moment, lol.
bluecollaholla – bluecolla is a 32 year old single black man from Charlotte, NC. Blue is the other co-founder of this blog, and posts on a less frequent nature. However, when he posts, he is moved by the current trends of dating and the bullshit that we black men have to put with sometimes, lol. Also a Charlotte Bobcats fan, Blue is into cars and has a great love of the females. Like MP, Blue is single and looking for the long term love out there.
Coco – I don’t reveal a woman’s age, but Coco is in our age bracket here. She is from Charlotte and is new to the Black Men Uncensored Family. Coco has a family of her own and is somewhat newly single in the world of dating. Her fresh female perspectives to dating is new to us and will provide a counterpoint to the usual “female bashing” we get blamed for around here lol. Show her some love and welcome her to our family!
Nice blog layout bros’.
Few problems I already spot from y’all intro:
#1:the idea of a good woman is false.That’s the first mistake y’all are making.Accept that all women have flaws and there’s no such thing as a good woman.
2nd.mistake:Saying that y’all are good guys.Women are NOT attracted to good guys.Nice guys are a huge turn off for women.Become a badboy instead.Chics dig badboys ONLY.
3rd.mistake:smStating that y’all are decent-looking men.Women do NOT chose men based in looks.That’s why you’d see a dirt-ugly guy with a hot chic.Women are NOT looks-driven(men are).So saying yours decent looking means nothing to a woman.
P.S.The reason women shit on nice guys and go fucc with broke bums is simple as I said in the first comment:women are biologically programmed to chose men who are dominant,rough,and badass.
The more you show a girl that you care,she will shit on you and go bang a guy who doesn care about her.My point:all women are attracted to badboys.So become a badboy(attitude wise)and yall would see how much women throw themselves at y’all.
BTW,I’m Socialkenny,a Pick-Up Artist out of NYC(and the Caribbean).I’m a dating coach in the underground seduction community where we teach men how to bang many women and attract many girls.
Fuck romance!Women arent attracted to romance but dominance.
If y’all don’t know abou the underground-seduction community,check out this site for basic info to get y’all game up to speed.http://pualingo.com/
Wow….I think we could have some topics for the next week based on those views man, lol.
I think me and my co-author would agree that our goal is long-term relationships with women. We both don’t really have problems ‘banging’ women if that was our only goal.
But I am definitely going to check you out man, thanks for the comments
I like the introduction as well as the comments posted. As an African American woman/blogger, I would have to agree with your guest. If you’re ever looking for a female to interview, hit me up. Realyfe101@gmail.com
Mz.Bambi!!!<333
In what aspect do you agree with Kenny on? He covered a lot there, it’s been a minute since I saw those comments, lol.
Since you’ve contributed so much we might just have to do some type of interview or something, lol. But you’re always free to comment on anything as you have already
The existence of a good man or woman, gives off the visual imagery of someone without imperfections. Perfect. Even though you never said it within your introduction, it is perceived within society that a good man has little to no flaws just as a good woman. A man or woman in general with good intentions is hard to find period. There are so many people out there who have been fucked up and over, inside and out that – being able to really put all of that to the side and treat people in equality, is almost like asking a crackhead bum whether he’d like the free food or money. Anyone can create a “good” man or woman with whatever type of character you run into. It’s based off of what you will and will not tolerate, will or will not accept and will or will not live with.
Now, not every woman is attracted to the bum ass dudes on the block with their ass crack hanging out – I for one, am not into those types of men simply because to me, they are what I’d refer to as a liability. There’s no future that could be built with a solid foundation keeping it still…I’d have to watch my back no matter where I go, regardless of whether he’s a hustler or just plain out dog.
When it comes to the looks, we can make a man look good just as a man can make a woman look outstanding. It’s all about the mental and how much that person can stimulate you in other areas besides the physical. The mind to me is much more attractive than just good looks because you can be fine as fuck but dumber than two hoes without a clue.
I like a manly man…someone who can make me feel more secure within his arms. A man who isn’t afraid to call the shots when it is necessary but doesn’t have a problem tuning into my feminine side to be sure everything with me is okay.
I mean..that’s just my $0.02 worth..
You are amazing with your words, wow….you should definitely be a writer
lol..thank you kindly sir…I am a writer..a freelance writer/poet
@Bambi-Wow you made some major points(good ones).
I’m definitely not one of the dudes on the bloc lol,but it comes back to what I was saying about women choosing(on a whole) to deal with men who are liabilities opposed to men who can be productive.
Doctors don’t get laid,CEO’s don’t get laid(besides banging prostitutes),rich men don’t get laid neither.Men who’re supposed to be good for women have a hard time finding women.Why?’Cause women are NOT attracted to nice guys on a whole.So the guy who has nothing going for him gets the most women.
And this is true. I think of a group of men and women sat around a table to just placed it out there – why do women complain about the good men being gone and feeling as though they need to result to the thugs and losers – you would get a panel of various answers.
We as people cannot really base one response towards a population simply because everyone has their own reasons. Take into consideration with your..
Doctors: They may work extensive hours and not be able to provide as much as as the woman would like. She could be your normal 9-5 type of chick in which she feels she is entitled to have that quality time with her man. Even though he may be able to provide the financial stability, he is unable to fulfill her emotional and physical desires (always tired from long hours)..
CEOs: Can be power driven. They can be assholes who don’t know what it is to treat a woman like a Queen simply because if they have the large bank accounts with countless dough, they may feel as though instead of showing through actions, they can just buy them…show them materialistically in which every chick isn’t into that shit. We want the small stuff..notice when I get my hair done, compliment me on my outfit, brush a piece of stray hair out of my face, kiss me while I’m resting…not buy me a car, spend $800 on a purse..none of that shit because at the end of the day, money can’t buy love and it damn sure can’t buy happiness. Don’t believe it? Take a look at all of those folks who hit the lottery and be broke a year or two later, miserable.
So when we use the descriptive term “good,” we have to be careful how loosely is it used because everyone has their own definition of…what good is to them ;o)
And yes my fellow poet..I am now following you as well. It’s good to network with very intellectual beings like MP and yourself.
And this is true. I think of a group if* men and women sat around a table to just placed it out there
I was a poet so it’s nice bumping into another.
@Bambi-First off:don’t get it twisted-I’m all about laying women(as much of them as I can)lol,so I’m not a good-guy in the least(not that you said I was).
Good points too with elaborating on good men who cannot get nor keep women.
It comes down to excitement factor,risk and adventurism.Good men are just boring.That’s why in the pick-up community,we advocate for men to become badboys(not in a true sense,but adopt a bad-boy persona),’cause women dig badboys because women dig the thrill and risks in life.
lol@all about laying women!! I’ve seen Kenny from your blog so I understand you there.
I’d agree with you..some women may find good men boring..there’s no “what if” factors..and yes, your community is off the chain!! Very informative might I add..not all women want a man who is going to lay down and allow her to take full control. We respect a man who not only understands that he too has authority, but isn’t afraid to show it (in a respectful manner). Just like you said, women can be attracted to the bad boy persona which is why they tend to go with the roughnecks and glock-carrying type of guys. It depends on the woman and why she desires the men that she does.
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Oh definitely!!
Nice guys finish last is 1 of our mottos.I’ve been that nice guy who women defecate on lol.All that changed years ago when I fount the PUA community and took some courses on being a badboy.All of a sudden,I was getting laid like a Rockstar lol!!
On the plus side,it’s nice that you’re observing 1 of the greatest rules of blogging:which is to actually be interactive and reply to comments.I wrote a blog the other day about blogging mistakes ppl make.You’re totally doing this blogging this right.
I’m very big on socializing and networking. I think that comes with the territory of being a writer. So I appreciate it Ken! I just recently started reaching out to other writers because beforehand, I just used my Blog as the usual online journal, not really expecting others to read it – just as long as I got however I felt, out of my system. But after taking the time out to visit other writers and read their work, I can totally dig it. I like how other individuals think and how they develop their own personal concepts for various topics.
LoL@Rockstar status..damn..well I intend on learning as much as I possibly can about this community as I never knew something such as it, existed. The powers of the internet man..I tell ya!
It’s always good to be able to share thoughts and input with writers…like having an online writer’s venue. I am so glad I broke out of writer’s block a while ago or else I’d be a damn hermit crab stuck.
Lol I keep up with the comments sir lol I did reply and they are much appreciated! I am trying to branch out with my blog but am not interested in writing for corporate America ..I like being able to write with no strings attached. We all need to definitely keep the writing up because we all share knowledge with one another as well as our readers and it is very motivational!
@Bambi-Yea a lot of bloggers start off with the concept of a diary.But eventually,one would like to have ppl check out their stuff,but as I wrote in my article on blogging mistake,”no one would be inclined to reading your blog if you don’t read theirs.BTW,I made few comments on your blog posts(about Adele and technology).Don’t you check on your blog lol?
@Bambi-That,s strange.I never received any notification saying that you re-replied on your blog posts.I am following you,so I should’ve received e-mail notifica’.
Anyway,I feel you though on blogging what you feel like.I mean,the funny thing is,my blog is considered anti-women,womanizing and sleezy.I generally have battles with femi-nazis and feminists who are anti-PUA,but that’s not gonna make me change my tone to a corporate-style of blogging.
Idk…my tech savvy side is lost on this glitch.
Lol@fem nazis too funny. I think people need to learn to take things with a grain of salt. We as writers are very powerful but at the end of the day, you are going to do and say and live how you want to. Its called being accountable for yourself. You can post all you want about how to do shit but you force no one to actually perform. Therefore it is decision of one’s self to put your words into action.
That’s my $0.02.
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